New Jacket.
Saying she is not a fan of the jacket is an extreme understatement! When we picked it out at the store she refused to even try it on and was pushing me away from her. I snuck up behind her and slid it on her arms before she noticed, just to make sure it fit.
I can't even go near her with the jacket without her thrashing her body all over the place all while screaming 'no, no, no' over and over with a heartbreaking cry of misery. She even takes a second to stop crying- thinks hard and then says as clearly as her little lips can say "offfssss" while pulling at the jacket. And I so badly want to reward her valiant efforts trying to communicate what she wants....my poor baby is so miserable with that jacket on!
I am trying to get her in the habit of always wearing the jacket outside, so this morning when we got home in the driveway and I knew I had time to deal with the inevitable tantrum, I made her put the jacket on before we got out of the car and into the house.
and boy did she have a tantrum! It was about 35 degrees out, and she threw herself on the driveway, screaming while on all fours as I just walked away... she didn't even budge. Nose running, face red, fingers probably frozen to the ground......she kept on having her tantrum. And when I tried to pick her up and carry her inside it only got worse.
Let's just say we have a lot of practicing to do!!!!!
But...what did she want to do once we got inside & I took off the jacket? Go outside!
So she continued her tantrum for about 20 minutes in the house. I was ignoring her, but it wasn't really making a difference, so I decided to go in her playroom and play with her toys hoping she would stop crying and join me. However- I noticed a bug on the windowsill, so I picked up my shoe and smacked it. Sure enough, she walked over, picked up my other shoe- stopped her tantrum, and started smacking the window with the shoe.
I guess I really need to be careful these days! She sure is watching every move I make!!!! Hey- at least it ended the tantrum!!
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